What do you tell to your husband whether he/it wants that you stop to nurse with 1 years?

Our son is 9.5 months old and I always planned, as as a nurse had worked one year long, but now this is end, and I don\'t feel ready to give it up. He/it will probably be our single baby, and I fühle me this times you together, is so special and precious, is healthy plus it for him/it. ICH\'ve already told my husband that the whole Americanakademie of the pediatrics, at least 1 years, recommends" plays to work as a nurse and he/it then says "big that you can hold with 1 years. I asked why he/it wants, thereß I holds, and he/it tells to him/it doesn, \'t wants, that our son is, with it dependant. Then, he/it says becomes "You/they doesn\'t do it until him/it is two laws?" and I pretend that how to deal it, would be crazy, but in the back of my mind, I don\'t believe that it is so strange,..., although maybe I 18 months or thinks so.

Do you agree with him/it or if you didn\'t say something? Thanks!

from DrWendy

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Babies/children, that is allowed to self, disaccustoms to actually be less likely, clingy from them is and dependent, and most, will stop to work as a nurse through the age of 5. Actually, the most will hold between 2 and 3, but maybe some places thereover out away that and dort\'s nothing injustice with it, if the mother with it is comfortably.

Many studies demonstrated that to nurse beyond one year, for both the mother as well as the child very useful is. The AAP-Empfehlung is to be nursed to one year, or beyond as yearn you itself as mother, and child wünscht, to continue. The WHO recommends to work two years old as a nurse to AT LEAST, and as you yearn as it, gew,ünscht from mother and child.

The decision from, when to stop, your child too quiet is, depends from you, not your husband! As yearn as Sie\'wieder of doing from it, and nursing is the best, then müssen you thinks, that your breasts are yours, not your husbands! If your husband aufhit wanted ören to place your child into a carseat after you would have followed one year? No no, because studies show, is the child in the carseat surer..., as well like studies MANY benefits of it, to nurse on one year, showed!

You/they should check out the following connections, and print out some of the studies in order to help to train your husband. Glück!

* * KATreasure * * you completely absolutely is WRONG in your uneducated, opinionated answer 100 percent! Maybe YOU/THEY believe this care beyond one year, becomes abh on youängiger a child does, but STUDIES showed the opposite. Why places you auf\'t tries, itself with information over a topic, to inform instead of answering questions, was based on your own opinion, and formulating of them, as if you have research on your side?

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Thx too much of you, & I estimates this informed answer/links. my son is VERY unabhängig, indeed I left my SIL & she/it to him/it in 3 hrs for the first time only recently said, that he/it not even cried once! His/its separation worry lasted only 3 weeks. I fühle, that our bond makes him/it glad surer, & confidently save to! ! RSS

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from Kayla Smith, I believe that you should hold with 1 yr. You/they müssen at your husband thinks, it should be a decision made between BOTH by you! yes it is healthy, but you really shouldn\'t ließ Ihr small baby so dependent on you becomes. You/they really should believe, if your single leaving it on für so long for your own egoistic reasons goes, no offense (that only says) I), seen this of my aunt passing \'ve, you don\'t let it simply happened to you!

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from MandaLoo Als one co breastfeeder believes I, that it is a little strange, as nurses do a child older than 1 to want. But if you are comfortable doing, so that and you fühlen, that the benefits outweigh your husband, \'s-Abneigungen against it, then, you should continue!

from LadyCath... as bring you as I one, you think the nursing of it, it really hangs from you and the baby and NOT your husband on.. he/it will get done exactly with it, must..

through HS thers absolutely no need, to stop, to nurse your child, if he/it turns 1. is the best if u wiederkäuen feed feed original children upto 2 years. i nursed my son upto 1.5 years. i stopped cos that my nipples started to itch and to break. i-Kraft wants to use all salves there, n then continues, my son too ernheads. un so proud of this, which i für him/it did. i can u that develops today with pride extremelyählen, hes now didn\'t have any individual ear infection hes in 4 and compared children very healthy hes to other and rarely falls sick. all the thanks is für my decision, to continue nursing. my sis after law nursed all 3 children upto, the 2 years and she/it also in good health is. original child, to nurse, becomes him/it on u. original, that only his/its benefit hinzufügt, no dependent one makes. if original, to about then hold, you don\'t discuss ready with original ur-Ehemann. if hes the only offspring original that glides about then u shud itself bemühen, to leave, the child original maximum, to give. but itself with original ur-Ehemann, to argue, is not the way. both of u shud b more gladly abot it cos the child is both of urs, and which Eva Entscheidung of u reception will influence the two of u.
his/its big one that nursed so long u. congrats on it:)

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nursed 1.5 years of Sohnesladenkasse. pregnant with baby 2. planning this this resembling doing

through Blair lee O.K.. places i wei auf\'t soß, why the need feels i to do this, but I only want to on that, what said DrWendy, back!!!
she/it was THEREFORE met the nail with the head!!
have him/it, research included nursing his/its mind for itself before brands on that, what he/it thinks. maybe könnten you, to agree with one year, only you nurse him/it if HE/IT comes for it. , not you offering)because trusts me, if you come up, für somebody, to hold before you, or your baby wants to it.... you will finish to stand any anger by this person.
it believes i that you should let him/it yourself disaccustom.

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I am advisor: a nursing peer,

from KATreasu.... It actually is recommended highly exact that you hold with one year,... the reason: Exactly that, what you feel. ErEr becomes everything of the health and the Nährstoffen got that he/it can and the best possible immune system through your nutritious milk until at the moment he/it is enough one year. If you decide, "I will give it up with 18 months instead"... and your original plan was the one~year-Fleck, then, you become relatively dependent already on this bond, and continues maybe to push away it further and further. {There nursed a case of a Scandinavian woman, until her/its/their son ten years old was!} you können a stronger has, healthy {mentally} band with your son into other manners, as soon as you stop to nurse. Her/its/their husband is right over the dependence, but it, \'s not only your son, about whom you must worry, if you catch my drift!

I hope that this helps!