Does Husband reduce me constantly?

he/it can never support me. I had a baby one year ago and increased. i\'ve decreased previously and won it and lost it. But because I aufhörte, to nurse, my weight increased a quantity. As soon as I met a certain point, made i on a food and have over 15 pounds in one month lost, but he/it says me nur\'ve "always been fat, not true, and thinks, that it is funny, that I take the trouble to lose it now, you, this will happen. He/it muß also his/its anger at me omits, because what always rises into his/its life. He/it becomes over something besides spins annoyed him/it on me and starts to yell at me. He/it yelled at me, glätten you there, where he/it works, and his/its employee left even the work and went outdoors because he/it wants to hear didn\'t how he/it treated me. It it all the bark and mostly no Biß. He/it will tell me that he/it only wants, thereß I goes, but then, he/it will say "where would become, you even go WITHOUT ME. I am the best matter, that ever happened to you,"yes right. He/it also accuses me dafür of the resigned contraceptives and let wanted to become pregnant with our second son, as he/it was the one, that happens", what happens. then, as I became pregnant, (Surprise, he/it says that I forced him/it to become pregnant. That is l, what he/it says,ächerlich. But we have two children, and I am not willing to give up our marriage STILL. He/it pushes me over my border although and I smooth, you take the trouble to avoid him/it sometimes. He/it gewann\'t views even therapy, so wei,ß I, to exclude it not, what, simple for the permission, matters don\'t change. I place, matters are gotten better to think away, if I lose the weight, but it didn\'t gets, you improve every other time, that I did.

from Al B

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You/they must look at over this place on emotional abuse because you are abused. Maybe he/it now is all the bark and no Biß, but this can change in time. After it schif look corrodes over this place on lifting your self, high and leaves him/it not only as far as you are concerned, but doesn\'t have with it your children him/it as a role model and becomes in the future like he/it to her/its/their spouses.

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through self, he/it thinks from him/it as well that jargon is alive. Therefore, he/it will continue to treat you like it.
You/they must do a pause from him/it. , In order to bring him/it only to recognizing, you him/it wofür makes.
If you let him/it make you ready, this will continue.
Instead of avoiding him/it prepares for itself to support you and children. Für all cases.
Find a place in friends or parents for temporary stay, you are only ready, so that you can deal next time, he/it treats you like waste,

is a control monster and you me from Robert He worries, if you don\'t say any bite mostly. He/it could you schließlich hurt. He/it needs, annoy management, that discusses, and you need, you learn that the danger signs.

from David Lee, he/it is a fuc..... idiot, whom you from there must come out, before he/it you really injured, bad.he anger problems and one day of your going, that something doesn\'t become do,it to find out this no matter you, were right or enough

through indiana7.... wow. first reception worry of itself. Don\'t-Sorge about your weight at the moment. Get any discussing für itself.

through sweetgir.... if you want to decrease, you do with it.., but only for your self; not for this idiot! Sad over my language; but looks like him/it, has bore control questions or only prairie, because she/it was married, and has into a habit to hand over the blame on you for each individual matter.

He/it needs, you annoy management and u, both needs couples counselling in order to solve your questions. If he/it doesn\'t want to place into the efforts, mußte a marriage work do, he/it can become lost.

You/they would be better at it without such a type anyway. Get a good work, if already has you dont one, and fängt at, to save money for itself, / children. He/it becomes f anywayür marries and child support pays, you challenge it, if would decide u for itself to share ways.

through Katie m u should lose weight for u and otherwise nobody!! well settled with it, to decrease in the first place. , in order to be honest, my discusses you, w,äre, to have a good conversation to him/it and to tell him/it, as he/it brings u to feeling. he/it sounds like hes controling, u and placing also very innocently from u doing u along thinks his/its ure-Schuld!! DONT believes per, thereß his/its ure, the hes the way, that he/it is, criticizes, and dont thinks, that it is gotten, you improve, if decreases u. hes that a d*ck and a doesnt u. earn
u improves, as he/it and this can see place u i into his/its place, if matters get better any dont, him/it a way is through going and leaving of him/it sees, how many gladder u and more confident u r without him/it is. Glück and dont likes, they will let him/it spoken with u, he/it does! particularly if is before this becomes children aswell,hey fit is ähig that not to tell gladly about this ure and i will cause, they so please think xx aswell of her/it/them

vonvon Sancy24 do, you go away what made i, you because matters only become the most badly or NEVER change,.. if the weigth will be loosely you for some other there, he/it will be approximately angry... and it accustomed alteration!!! my husband was ONLY LIKE IT, I moved only with him/it and thinks 3 children to another state and believed, that it will be better,... he/it got a big work, and a stay with Heimatmama was i... i got a work only with mcdonalds, so that he/it can look at the children, as home he/it and we came, pays a babysitter wouldnt, he/it tought i will never go, because he/it said, needed him/it i, but thanks to the help of new friends here, I was capable to do it.... HE/IT is FROM MY LIFE!!! you dont needs particularly one like it a man beside you..... I knows HIS/ITS HARD, but is for the best... he/it abuses you mentally

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through xXStarfi.... he/it must have his/its PMS on overweight! It it not a man, if he/it cannot handle the pressures of the work. From it something Sie\'wieder me says, he/it doesn\'t get along anything meaning in his/its life againstover that doesn\'t overpower for most people. If es\'s, the a family begins, maybe he/it is not willing to be a husband or a father to the child. It it, that a vollständiger jerk to you is. I propose, with your parents für a while, to remain, until he/it can cool down and can think about it across, as it it, that treats you. It it senselessly and in self denial, as it seems to be. You/they should get your family and involved his/its family thereover, if you can. Get those, that itself over you provides and left that knows her/it/them that it it, that treats you very awfully. Bring her/it/them to helping you on a manner or having, they speak with your husband and restricted his/its actions. The best from Glück!

through Morgan, I believe his/its heavy one someday to give advice to other people because you don\'t know until they go what thur, your in there shoes. It told your husband, as you itself fühlen? I believe if to decrease your going, it not für any other reason for your self does. Maybe if it one week or is left so long, sähe he/it, how much he/it needed you. Glück

durchdurch teytey Tell he/it, that got over itself, and if he/it screams again with you for some stupid one, he/it can leave the door, that you don\'t need him/it and his/its ego, better fish are in the sea for her... and sticks you at it. See, as he/it itself after it fühlt that and if he/it then changes Don\'t for himself, you throw out him/it or leave you him/it... nobody must be treated like it. Ultimatum time.. he/it will either try his/its heaviest, itself too veralters, or you must continue and must leave, he/it lives with his/its own ego while he/it pays child support.