My husband and nursing...?

I believe that my husband with me becomes a little uncomfortable the nursing of our daughter.
I pump exclusively, and I get more than enough, so that that is, what I do, I let something, to which she/it doesn\'t come, always frozen.
I leave what I normally pump, approximately 70oz and what she/it normally eats, on plus protects.

I love the fact that I am capable to give the best of the best to my daughter if the meal occurs.

SoSo, that I informed him/it of it, today needed I breast increases, you milk Gefrierschranktaschen, and he/it flipped out, my breast milk to say a little one picks up too much area in the Gefrierschrank and that I should discard simply particular along the gutter!!!

I gotta-Meinung, I was hurt to hear this completely.
I am, milks literally working 10 hours per day, that pumps my breast and camps, for OUR daughter, and as it dares, he/it proposes that I something so precious and important for my breast milk discards.

Did he/it say recently "how you will pump long for it?" He/it thought in long run, and he/it also sounded a little whiny.

I worry really not how he/it feels care himself I what is right for me and my daughter, over it, because I know.
He/it even proposed that I cure her/it/them of my breast milk and "only she/it favored formula"!!!

I am furious with his/its comments because he/it is so unkind from my efforts as if that is not at all important, what makes i.
As he/it asked me to discard my breast milk, it really hurt me because I am so proud of me from it, capable, to nurse my daughter and to be so hard and time of consuming of it, I am so glad that I have the determination to do this.
A big deal and I is not can believe breast milk and nursing that he/it proposes formula!
If I see my daughter, and like healthy she/it grows, I participate, you owe of the meals produced in order to grow with the fact, that is my own body, for her/it/them! It with astonishment me only every single room time, and I place wei auf\'tß, why he/it doesn\'t see any so astonishing, very beautiful natural process.

Anyways, he/it is no boob man. Never was not be you with it, he/it kämpft, to get back his/its territory.

I am simply really curious why he/it is like it.
I would believe that men would be glad, that her/its/their children are nursed since it, is the best matter for her/it/them.

I asked him/it about it, and he/it only ignores me.
Any thoughts?

from Angela J

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i dont believes, that men know, what they sometimes say. My husband was in the habit of telling me, thereß un not doing a good of enough work, because had i never alot particular milk. Sometimes, they are egoistic, and dont thinks over our feelings after. ICH\'m certainly is he/it like emotional as well and robbed sleep, however, he/it könnte only talks that really not and giving from it any attention. if fells w a drop of my breast milk on my shir of the ground iürde, even had describe a heart attack, that milk was couldn so precious for me words, t. Das\'s likes another baby! he/it kit recognizes önnte, that he/it was wrong, after he/it had said those matters, and it doesn\'t admit if you ask. He/it is likely annoyed, that he/it gets doesn\'t to nourish the baby, so much as well as you or original hogging you does. Who nos, that which Mreally thinks änner,

Asker \'s Comment:: The single reason, that I pump so very much, is dry up I totally you during my periods, and I need the addition during this time. Also, if she/it older is, she/it becomes more and the brauchen\'s, why I built such high supply.
I cannot believe some people on it, is so ignorant over it here.
But, thank you for it, to get it,

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from Tracy, I agree with Jan that he/it is a breast person, but didn\'t recognize itself maybe! Nütze I from because u-Pumpe that has her/it/them bottles? If then not he/it itself f maybeühlt, omitted. Even if your edition he/it k so many hours, that pump,önnte jealous is and wanted both any time for you back

Are men any secretly so replused through it maybe, he/it finds it repulsively?
Maybe instead of you him/it, to discard, could your milk donate to a neonatal-Einheit? You/they seem auszudrücken, very much, so that misses some bags per week of your milk \'t gewannen,wird and holds your husband at the wail and to same time won\'t be wasted? Pump less maybe and spend duration bare with hubby!

from SomeRand.... if you spend 10 hours per day with pumping your husband, has a point maybe. That is precious time, that you spend with your child and your husband, könnten. It sounds like you, k,önnte into this topic a little unduly perceptive becomes. Certainly, it is gro to breast feedß, and it is healthier. BUT many parents put also the baby on formula, particularly after the first few months. It is HER/ITS/THEIR election what you want to do, but maybe you should look also at itself and your husband!

Honestly I knew women of the breast linings and do, you one year for what does, or more. Again, this is her/its/their election, but I think ES\'S RIDICULOUS! To be a mommy is a break hard work and YOU/THEY and HER/ITS/THEIR BODY needs! Her/its/their Brüste belongs to THEM, not your child or your husband! It is großartig, that you want, that your daughter grows up healthy,... besides spending of TEN hours per day with it fortified to pump itself/themselves to a machine, is extreme and sounds doesn\'t healthy. This, that of Klit likes änge that it influences your time and your relationship more as it is your child benefiting! And something over HER/ITS/THEIR body? Müssen you 10 hours per day, that sits, from form edition horribly is... like healthy is that for you and your family?

There is is many women exclusively, that change to formula or use it, and there nothing wrong, to choose this with it. Some women place sufficiently auf\'t-Marke milk OR, thereß her/its/their milk bad quality is. If you spend 10 hours per day on that occasion, könnte it sure, to say, is, that you make milk in order to hold step with your daughter sufficiently not! Also, if you let it frozen, it becomes Nährstoffe loses and probably gewinnen\'t is any keen or off than formula. Therefore muß I your husband on this agrees =, if the baby is 6 months old in the course, ALREADY THE MILK THE GUTTER DEPRESSED discards AND gets OVER IT! It is only Körperflüssigkeit. There is, no proof, that of Brustfütterung stretched out, has every benefit! It sounds also like it, also became very much, you time consuming für you, to lead about a healthy, productive life with your family.

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Mommy x 2... then nursed the first 3 months long, that I said ENOUGH! My children grew up healthy, and I was fähig, to have a LIFE again! Natürlich I didn\'t must pump for 10 hours per day... this is open simply insane... no miracle, that your hubby is excited!

from LuvMy2Gi... I is everything for nursing, and still gets from one cup indeed breastmilk my 16 month old. But you are possessed from pumping. 10 hours per day pumps is unecessary. I don\'t have any idea, how old your baby is, but 70 ounces are alot for the milk. I würde pumping seriously decreases. Indeed würde I and nurse baby holds directly. Es\'s SO of much easy and few time, consuming.

through prides Mama, you pump too much. I believe, thereß he/it probably jealous is. 10 hours per day on him/it pumps is way more, as you even pump, should want. You/they probably spend 10 hours more 1 lessons with pumping, 8 hours, that sleeps, eats, this, that 4 special hours, that certainly give ich\'m, have you, means you wtih your daughter from. When does your husband get any duration with you? It doesnzählt \'t, if he/it sits on the couch beside you, while your two pump,... he/it probably is simply excited, can because he/it misses his/its wife, accuse him/it ya? Why you think, thereß you anyway so very much pumped milk needs?

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from GabaGoo, it is pumps excessive 10 hours per day, you will give a good case of mastitis to itself...

Maybe your complacent attitude be this beyond nursing on his/its nerves. I get, thereß Sie\'wieder amazed with that, what your body can make right, but you could disconcert him/it from the whole matter.

Adopt over the fact maybe, I will bet any humility, that you nurse, that he/it won\'t be, so that snippy with you...

And let him/it also feed her/it/them, with one bottle.

from Jesuslov... oh, to hear about you, busy itself sorrowfully one with a sullen old man here. I dont actually thinks is everything against you got, maybe however nursing thinks other questions of the relationship, that is sad, i there that therefore he/it and the wail milk over the breast an omission is. Because you had your baby as it has your relationship beeinflußt? Matters probably are, itself veralter to have and you must devote yourself to concerning about your baby, because she/it is number 1, as she/it is so young, but some men are like babies, and maybe they must be again-insured so, you must find time for your hubby like it if baby sleeps. another Z is stillendstillendähe work selflessly and rewarding also for mommy and baby.. i is also a new mummy, and my baby girl is 7 months old and un going, to nurse her/it/them, until she/it is 12 months old, because his/its good for her/its/their health particularly like winters comes, it will be good for her/its/their immune system, but at the same time is a tough work and i gets the whole time hungrily and thirsty therefore, so that understands you completely i, but you got to let seen your husband, how important this is, and he/it should be proud of you, and he/it should not take the trouble to add the burden from it from the wail.

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Tuesday, 19 July 2011